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About TANDEM Ministry

What is the TANDEM Ministry? It's more complicated than a beautiful bracelet. It's a conversation starter and a reminder of God's promise to His children....

Red Flags Before Marriage

Marriage is one of the most significant commitments a person can make. Much bigger than buying a house. For Christians, it’s seen as a lifelong covenant before God. While love and attraction are important, they’re not enough to sustain a healthy, God-honoring marriage. Recognizing potential red flags before saying...

Why 50/50 Relationships Fail

Have you ever heard marriage referred to as a 50/50 relationship? Where each of you contributes to half of the relationship. The idea is to maintain a sense of “fairness.” Having equality in a relationship might seem logical and even practical, but it’s not. From a biblical perspective, we shouldn’t...

Why I Love Decorating for Christmas Early

Is it ever too early to celebrate the joy and warmth of Christmas? For the bah hum bugs, the answer is "yes." In this article, we'll discuss the reasons and benefits as to why you should start decorating for Christmas early this year....

An Introvert’s Guide to Loving an Extroverted Wife

If you’re an introverted husband married to an extroverted wife, you may feel overwhelmed or misunderstood at times. In this article, we’ll dive into practical ways to understand and support your extroverted wife with your introverted limitations....

Why We Blame God When Bad Things Happen

It’s easy to point a finger at God when things go wrong. In this article, we’ll dig into why we blame God, how it affects our faith, and what Scripture says about turning our pain into trust. If you've ever struggled with this, you’re not alone, and today we’re...

Balancing Individual Interests within Marriage

How can Christian couples strike a healthy balance between personal pursuits and their commitment to one another? In this article, we’ll explore biblical wisdom and practical examples for finding harmony in both areas....

5 Habits for a Healthy Marriage

Many couples divorce because it requires effort, intentionality, and commitment. Marriage is a journey of companionship, trust, and growth. As Christians, we’re called to nurture our relationships, following God’s principles of love and grace. Establishing healthy habits can help couples nurture their connection, improve communication, and grow together, both emotionally...